Living with Purpose

Finding Light in Life's Challenges

The lamp in the parable is not put under a basket. That is the whole image, and it is worth sitting with how modest it is. Not a beacon on a hill visible for miles — a household lamp, on a household stand, lighting one room enough to work in.

Most of us are given a lamp, not a lighthouse. The question is not how far the light carries. It is whether the basket is on.

What the baskets usually are

  • Exhaustion. The most common one, and the one we are least willing to call by name.
  • Self-protection. If nobody sees the light, nobody can be disappointed by it.
  • Comparison. A lamp measured against a lighthouse will always look like a failure.

None of these are moral collapses. They are the ordinary weather of a difficult year. But the lamp does not stop being lit under a basket — it just stops being useful, and eventually it goes out for want of air.

Purpose in a hard season

Purpose is not a grand assignment waiting to be discovered. In this parable it is the fact that you are already lit, and that a room near you is dark.

Let your light shine before others — not so that they will admire the light, but so that they can see what they are doing.

A practice

At the end of each day this week, name one room your light was in. A conversation. A meal cooked. An email answered kindly when it did not have to be. Write it down.

By Sunday you will have seven, and seven is enough to argue with the voice that says the lamp went out.